Do I Want My Ex Back For The Right Reasons?

Why do I want my ex back?

Think about it…

Think about it long and hard, because here’s the deal…it IS possible to get your ex back.  Our proven coaching system has helped over 6,500 people get back with their ex boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands and wives.

But do YOU really want to get back with YOUR ex?

Here’s a little exercise for you. Grab a pen and paper and finish this sentence…

My ideal partner MUST…

Go on, it will only take a few minutes, but could potentially save you from a lifetime of heartache. Finish the sentence ten different times by listing the TOP 10 THINGS you absolutely MUST have in your ideal partner.

Here are some examples:

* My ideal partner MUST love and accept me for who I am.
* My ideal partner MUST have a good sense of humor.
* My ideal partner MUST love animals, and not eat meat.

Remember, these things are an ABSOLUTE MUST for you, so try not to be too restricted with the things you list.

Now for the flip side…

Try writing out a list of the TOP 10 THINGS you would absolutely HATE in a partner.  Finish this sentence…

My partner from hell would…

For instance:

* My partner from hell would be a smoker.
* My partner from hell would be verbally, physically, or emotionally abusive.
* My partner from hell would not be trustworthy.

Have you finished yours lists? Congratulations!

Now, take a minute and ask yourself how your ex compares to these lists.  Do they have more of the “ideal” qualities or more of the “hellish” qualities? Naturally, no one is perfect, but far too many people set the bar too low in picking a partner.  Many people “settle”, and end up with a rather “hellish” relationship.

Now, what about you?  Do you exhibit more of the “ideal” qualities or the “hellish” ones?  How can you expect your partner to be what you are not?

These negative qualities…from both you and your ex…are ultimately the reason you split up.

So, do you want to get back with your ex for the right reasons? If your ex shows more of the negative qualities, then it is a safe bet you’re wanting to get back together for the WRONG reasons, whatever those reasons may be.   Before you take any action, take your time and seriously consider if this is something you still want to pursue.  But if you do want to take action and get your ex back sooner than later, here’s your next step!